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| Snap The Child Incur Brain Damage |
Yelling at children incur physiological damage with long term consequences. Inside the head of a child over 10 trillion brain cells that are ready to grow. One Visual objects right or invective will kill more than 1 billion brain cells right away. A pinch or a blow would kill more than 10 billion brain cells right away. In contrast, 1 compliment or hug will build the intelligence of more than 10 trillion cells of the brain right then and there.
We may remember and feel a little at a time, the parents never shout or scold us. This time we as parents can minimize the potential physical damage on our children by giving praise and reprimand the child with loving care.
You will be increasingly understand why snapped and apply harsh on children very bad impact, research proves.
According to Martin Teicher, an associate professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, when parents yell to his sons will damage the structure of the brain in children. On the child's brain that often in snaps, tubes that connect the left brain right brain become smaller. This affects areas of the brain associated with emotion and attention. These changes at a time when adult children will cause anxiety, depression, personality disorders, and the risk of suicide and brain activity similar to epilepsy.
Based on research conducted from the Faculty of medicine Gliot Lise Chicago, scold the child can interfere with a child's brain structure. Even in children who are still in the growth of the brain during the golden age of the first 2-3 years of his life, loud noises and snapped out of parents can abort the brain cells that are growing.
While at the time the mother was giving gentle caresses while breastfeeding, a series of beautifully formed brains. The research itself is conducted Gliot Lise himself on his son by placing the cable recorder brain associated with a computer monitor so can see any changes that occur in the brain development of children. "The result is remarkable, when breastfeeding formed a series of beautiful, yet as he was surprised and a little hard on his son, voiced a series of beautiful bubbled like a balloon, then broke apart and changes color. This is just screaming, "he said.
From the results of this research, it is clear the influence of anger against the son greatly affects the development of the brain. If this is done on a uncontrollably, it is not impossible it will interfere with a child's brain structure itself. "Hence, parents should be careful in rebukes his son," he said. Not only that, angry also interfere with vital organs in the body function. Not only the brain, but also the liver, heart and other.
Children who are likely to be snapped in fear with their parents. This creates distrust and rebellious response in children. The child will seek the support of others like them. This will cause the relationship between parents and children become unwell later in the day.
Some Ways To Prevent Yourself Yelling At Children :
- Breathe calmly. When you are angry at the child, pull the breath slowly and diapers right. Close your eyes for a bit and calm yourself.
- We all have a fun kid, just sometimes a bit naughty. Teach discipline in children with affection and positive way.
- Be a good example for your children.
- A child with language Devised a delicate and gentle words spoken.
- Teach children to be able to express his feelings well to parents as well as his friend.
- Give the child a clear rule to follow. For example should not watch television during the hours of study. If the child has been used then he will easily comply with the regulation.
- Always give praise if the child is doing a good thing.
- Strengthen your relationship with the child. Be personally close and familiar with your child.
- Instill within you that You teach your children discipline to build good character, not to make your child crying and grieving.
- Give children food with a balanced nutrition and proper sleep schedule is set. Children with the quality of sleep and good nutrition usually have behavior a good and obedient.
- No parents are perfect. Stay calm if your child is misbehaving or fuss. Invite your child to talk well and full of tenderness.
- Teach discipline in children without spanking. Cuddle or gentle stroking the child's head while advised.
- Words you can say to a child to motivate his is clever: "you all", "you are fabulous."
- Give gifts to children on his success.
Through this approach is expected to form a child's character and spirit positively. The child is a gift of God who made us learn about love, wisdom and tenderness. If you have any other experience, please share your stories about educating children in the comments field below.
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